Need to let it lie

Some friends and I were chatting about a fellow cancer patient and about getting sick with chemo. My one friend said - it seemed like you had a pretty easy time with it. ARE YOU FUCKING KIDDING ME??? Puking up to 8 times a day does not seem easy to me. Not eating or drinking for 3 days is not easy. Maybe if that friend would have been one to call me on those days she would remember these things. There were times when I slept for 20 hours straight. Only waking to vomit or use the bathroom. Are you seriously kidding me.